Excuses, Nothing But Excuses

Excuses, Nothing But Excuses

I have a valid excuse for ditching this blog for the past 2 months.
No, really .
Sunday afternoon this past November 16th on the way to a lovely mother-daughter lunc h at Applebees we were tboned at an intersection right on the passengers side of the car ,were I was sitting.
Yes,you read correctly ,I was hit by a Chevy Silverado(2-3k lb pick up) at about my shoulder.
Thanks to  my father's insistence on a safe car, German engineering (front & side  airbags and a steel bar in the door), and an off duty nurse who arrived moments after the crash)  I am alive.
My daughter  is fine  ( but shaken), the other driver walked away and his wife also had some rib issues.
However , I  have three fractures in my pelvis , and cracked ribs.So I can only walk  with a  wheeled walker or use a wheelchair .
 I can't lift my legs, and need a potty in  the room and a hospital bed.Can't shower, can't get out of bed alone,leave the house (unless per stretcher )...well  you are getting the picure by now, I presume.I am on narcotics for most of the day, but am lucid.
Also I have a pelvic fixator ( like a big  bar  )in my tummy that keeps my pelvis still as  I heal.
That sucker is  stuck in with exposed pins.
It always hurts me.It comes out  over the next few weeks thank goodness.
I will not be totally
healed for another three months .
It's been a hard  ,painful recovery so far.
My Eddie is  taking care of me  and  he is a wonderful nurse.Steff steps in too and helps her Ma out .Also her new boyfriend Dave has been giving  us a hand. 
Childbirth is a paltry pain experience  next to this ordeal.
I'm gonna be ok, I keep reminding myself...



posted by: judypatooote (reply)
post date: 12.27.08 (8:27 am)

Oh dear April, I'm so sorry to hear about your accident....I'm happy that your on the mend....I'm sure it will take time, and therapy, but thank God you survived ....your lucky to have your special fella Eddie with you.....and I'm happy that Steph is ok... this I'm sure put a damper on your Christmas, but there is always next year.....God Speed, and know that I'm thinking of you.... judy



posted by: PirateGirl (reply)
post date: 12.27.08 (8:45 am)

So sorry to hear this news April! - So glad you are going to be ok - (even though it doesn't feel too much like it right now)
(((Hugs and prayers))) to you



posted by: auntconi (reply)
post date: 12.27.08 (9:26 am)

Oh no ~ that is horrible~
Thankfully you had a safe car and are on the mend now.
((hugs)) and prayers for you!



posted by: SupremeAnna (reply)
post date: 12.27.08 (9:29 am)

That's awful. God speed your recovery.



posted by: mimi (reply)
post date: 01.02.09 (9:08 am)

and here, we were all thinking that the love bug had just swept you away! so glad to know you will be better and that you survived this terrible ordeal! get well, dear april! we will keep you in our prayers! xoxo



posted by: rosietulips (reply)
post date: 01.05.09 (10:05 am)

OMG April...I was wondering where you'd been and figured you were just enjoying life with Eddie. What a miracle you are alive! I hope your recovery goes smoothly and quickly. {{hugs}}



posted by: Ladyg (reply)
post date: 02.06.09 (12:24 am)

What an awful thing to happen, glad you are on the mend. Will keep you in my prayers.

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