April's Ramblings,Scrambling&Amblings

Praise Be , Now Pass Me Another One of Them There Biscuits

An email with this article /study news came in my mailbox  from my Mom  the other day ( in the subject line):

 Big Bottoms Are Good for Health

One question a man hates to be asked is, “Does my butt look too big in this?”( quick answer with me is , um ,yes --always--no matter how much weight I  lose ) But researchers suggest the healthy answer could be “yes.” They believe that the type of fat women hate, the kind that collects around the hips, may offer health benefits including helping protect women against Type 2 diabetes.

The type of fat that accumulates under the skin — called subcutaneous fat — may improve sensitivity to insulin, which regulates levels of blood sugar and may protect people against developing diabetes. So, a generous bottom may mean a lower risk of developing diabetes. In addition, the fat around bottoms may also produce hormones called adipokines, which may counteract the negative effects caused by abdominal fat (also known as visceral fat).

Scientists at Harvard Medical School found even more good news for pear-shaped people: They are less likely to develop heart disease.

Study leader Dr. Ronald Kahn gave mice transplants of subcutaneous fat deep into their abdomens. The mice began to lose weight after several weeks and their fat cells shrank. The insulin levels and blood sugar also improved.

“The surprising thing was that it wasn’t where the fat was located, it was the kind of fat that was the most important variable,” said Dr. Kahn. “Even more surprising, it wasn’t that abdominal fat was exerting negative effects, but that subcutaneous fat was producing a good effect.”

I am all over this study. Thanks , this here  fat bottomed girl  is very appreciative.And Eddie likes this bubble  butt.I am one lucky gal.

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Troubles , I Got Some

have been  regaining  my strength  daily, with the help of my beloved Eddie  and twice a week physical therapy.

 A great recent development is that my health insurance is finally paying  some of my bills.

 They had to helicopter lifeline me to  an orthopedic clinic in the next larger town that dealt with pelvic injuries the day of my accident , bill was a staggering 15 K --finally got paid  by my health insurance  the other day.

What a relief.

I have over 100 K bills from the accident.

I have a personal injury lawyer helping me sort all this who pays  what ( health or car insurances, they tend to try and let  the other one pay so consequently squat gets paid).

That day is etched in my memory ( the pieces I remember when I was conscious), much like the day that Tom died.

I certainly thought that my quota  for pain and drama  was fulfilled the day that Tom was killed .The months/years  of pain I endured mourning his loss and my search  for a new life in shadow of what had been.

Apparently I was wrong.

However, scrappy survivor that I turned out to be (I even surprised myself at the fortitude  I have been able to produce ) along with the help of those that love me, I am  returning from yet another change  of circumstance  with a few more of life's lessons  tucked  away .

I have noticed that nowadays  I could stand to use the handicapped  toilet  stall  when I'm out and about the raised toilet  is  much more comfy for me still ...they are always in use.

Now , I will  admit that I have used them in the past  when I had no need for them, except  that the normal ones were full.Sounds like a touch of karma to me.*Sighs*

Some  of these  cans out there  are extremely low to the ground , and you'd only  notice if you were ,well , indisposed as I am currently .

I'm not quite up to par yet, but I'm getting more and more flexible again  ...I'll be back up and bellydancin 'fore ya know it !

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Valentines Banquet Feb 09

Freshly Brewed

Today I got up early and made coffee. Sounds simple doesn't it.

Well  it is now.

 Considering for nearly three months I was broken and weak  and needed  help to do the easiest  tasks,this is a landmark event.

It's a tad strong, but nuttin a lil water won't dilute....

 

 

 

 

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A Day Late and A Dollar Short...As Always...

Apparently  yesterday was  National Pie Day.

I love me some pie.

I didn't have any to mark the occasion with either.

*Pout*

 However, the day before I scored a pecan pie  slice that  Eddie's Ma had  given him in a Tupperware container  at some point  over the holidays.

Eddie said " toss it, it's probably moldy", but my sniffer  deduced otherwise .

 I mean it's been  in the fridge   sealed --  pecans, corn syrup , pie crust...none of those  things  get bad all too fast under those conditions. 

So ,  that was a lucky find  amongst a ton of  science experiments I helped him toss out.

Some were from the holidays, some from his granny  who left for  FL about a month ago and some were from me  from before the accident.

 So yeah,  between the two of us we cleaned stuff out .Now the shelves just need wiped .

That's for another day.

 I still wish I woulda has some celebratory pie yesterday...

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Thanks

You all make me feel so good with all your caring words.
I'm touched.
(((HUGS))) 

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Excuses, Nothing But Excuses

I have a valid excuse for ditching this blog for the past 2 months.
No, really .
Sunday afternoon this past November 16th on the way to a lovely mother-daughter lunc h at Applebees we were tboned at an intersection right on the passengers side of the car ,were I was sitting.
Yes,you read correctly ,I was hit by a Chevy Silverado(2-3k lb pick up) at about my shoulder.
Thanks to  my father's insistence on a safe car, German engineering (front & side  airbags and a steel bar in the door), and an off duty nurse who arrived moments after the crash)  I am alive.
My daughter  is fine  ( but shaken), the other driver walked away and his wife also had some rib issues.
However , I  have three fractures in my pelvis , and cracked ribs.So I can only walk  with a  wheeled walker or use a wheelchair .
 I can't lift my legs, and need a potty in  the room and a hospital bed.Can't shower, can't get out of bed alone,leave the house (unless per stretcher )...well  you are getting the picure by now, I presume.I am on narcotics for most of the day, but am lucid.
Also I have a pelvic fixator ( like a big  bar  )in my tummy that keeps my pelvis still as  I heal.
That sucker is  stuck in with exposed pins.
It always hurts me.It comes out  over the next few weeks thank goodness.
I will not be totally
healed for another three months .
It's been a hard  ,painful recovery so far.
My Eddie is  taking care of me  and  he is a wonderful nurse.Steff steps in too and helps her Ma out .Also her new boyfriend Dave has been giving  us a hand. 
Childbirth is a paltry pain experience  next to this ordeal.
I'm gonna be ok, I keep reminding myself...

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Bonnie and Clyde ....

Ghosts, Goblins, Punkins, Costumes and Sweet , Sweet Candy

 

It seems that  my sweetie and I  are officially in our  birthday week.

His birthday is October 30 , and mine is  October 31.

That's something alright.

I always tease him about being a "Halloweenie Wannabee".

'Cuz yanno I am the real deal.

As we both age  further into our 40's ( a good thing , really), I am struck by ( duck ! *snort*) how grateful I really am  to have found  someone  who makes my life so rich  by just being in it .

I don't actually need another  dust magnet tschotchkie  , his love ( oh yeah I  said that  gooey thing  --sticky sweet like caramel  isn't it ?!) is  the best  present I could ever have imagined at this time of my life.

Oh and we have matching era  costumes .

Twenties flapper here with my  gangster ( he's in the  counterfeit money  business not just  an ordinary  hooch runner ), it's  going to be interesting as I haven't been seen in a dress  for at least a decade now.

I might let youse guys & dolls  see a picture of us in full regalia.

 

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Smorgasborg of Kinfolk, Friends and BBQs

This summer  has overflowed with  family reunions ( his  not  mine) , friends from what seems like another  lifetime ( mine and his)  and my Eddie's Grill masterpieces.

 That man can grill meat like no one's business.

He whips up these delish marinades , and with the help of my handy meat thermometer  ( we  call it a  "probe" ), many a gourmet feast has been  enjoyed  in this neck of the woods.

 I busy myself making the sides , and sometimes the desserts.

He also can build  very pretty fires.

I hadn't enjoyed  roasted marshmallows since the late 80's sometime.I like 'em brown  , never burned.

I've been invited to attend many of his family's  assorted reunions  so far.One in Alabama , and  one  just  a tad more than an hour away .

He has nice family, and so I have enjoyed  meeting all these people.

I am very social if nothing else.

Some of those regional accents were pretty  thick, but the food was plentiful  and  the atmosphere was welcoming.

A few of the friends  have come here , some we've gone out to see , and we've made some new connections along the way.

It's all good.

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